OPEN WIDE YOUR HEARTS/CONFESS YOUR SINS TO ONE ANOTHER

Class #3, Transforming Friendships

Spring 2011 – Athens Church of Christ

class notes by Sam Laing

2 Cor. 6:11-13, 7:2, Philippians 1:7-8

1. Sharing your heart

  • Means to let others know what is in our heart
  • “we have spoken freely” – 2 Cor. 6:11
  • We have to real with people to be close to them – to know and be known
  • Jesus in the Garden Matt. 26:38
  • Paul: 2 Cor. 2:1-4, 1 Thess. 2:8
  • How does sharing your heart connect you with others?
  • 2 Cor. 4:13-17/ Rom. 12:9
  • What do we share? On what levels?

°         Facts

°         Opinions

°         Feelings

2. “Open Wide Your Heart”  (2 Cor. 6:11-13)

  • Means to let someone in, to allow them a place in our heart, allow ourselves to care
  • “We are not withholding our affection from you”
  • “A fair exchange” – why does openness need to be a two way street?
  • Need for vulnerability

3. “Make Room in Your hearts’ (2 Cor. 7:2)

  • Opening our hearts to new people, new friends
  • We cannot be equally close to everyone, but we can open our hearts to new people throughout our lives
  • What does it mean to withhold affection from someone?

°         Guardedness

°         We don’t trust/we are protecting ourselves

°         We are selfish, don’t want to invest